Every breach you've read about has the same root cause.
A small group of well-documented incidents — LastPass, Okta, Microsoft, the Snowflake-tenant cluster, Slack. You've probably read headlines about most of them. What the headlines don't say is that they all happened for one of five reasons, and four of those reasons are the same architectural choice: the vendor was holding a copy of the customer's data they could read.
Imagine you put your most sensitive documents in a locker at a storage facility. There are two kinds of facility: one where the staff has a copy of your locker key (so they can let in a plumber, or respond to a court order, or accidentally let an intruder in if they get fooled). And one where they don't — they just rent you the locker; only you can open it. Almost every workspace tool you use today is the first kind. Every story below is what happens when the first kind of storage gets robbed.
Not fear-mongering. Most of these vendors handled the incident competently after the fact. The point is that the same shape of incident keeps happening — and there's a different shape of system (the second kind of facility) where the same incidents are bounded by mathematics, not by the vendor's response.